Becoming slovenly. It's an actual goal, a plan. Of course it's a metaphor for four - 4 being the yet-to-appear Tom in this picture of the happily ever after. What's behind this is getting past the assumptions about BPD at least the tie to depression and concentrating on "is the only difference the presence of being petrified that everyone will leave you?" Does that = fear of verdict

Bringing it back to slapdash, the incremental reduction in output is built into the biorhythmic action plan and as long as the mojo is prominent, check please.

How did I let this happen? That succumb thing again, but thanks to the R&R the day by day reprises and the son also rises.

Keeping the play in placate is deferring the completion of the to-do wish list. Tsk-tsk